The Fear: Guy got balls for a reason. Maybe they should use them.

Boy.

-noun

   -a male child, from birth to full growth, esp. one less than 18 years of age.

  -a young man who lacks maturity, judgment, etc.

(Dictionary.com)

What you see above is the definition of a boy. See the second definition? This is the nice way of saying guy's are assholes that you can never understand. We grow up our lives being told that one of these days a boy is going to "court" us and then eventually we will marry, have a few kids and live happily ever after. At least that's what the story books and our parents tell us. But this my darlings is not the case. We quickly find out when we reach the age of maturity and are about to head out into the big world of opportunities that the guy probably won't "court" you at all. The women now-a-days are the ones who "court". We spend countless hours on end stressing about how we look and making sure we look "perfect" just in case we may happen to see the guy we're interested in. As much work as that is we now have to apparently approach the guy first as well? When do the guy get to do any work? Oh yeah he proposes. With out luck ladies we'll be the one's doing that now too. I hate to be old fashioned but "Hello!" Girls are too self-conscious to talk to guy. I don't care how show you are. If you don't talk to me I'm going to assume you have no idea who I am. Boy's, you need to grow some balls and talk to us. Society stereotypes men as being strong, not afraid of anything types. While women, are fragile flowers that are better left barefoot and pregnant. So if your going to make jokes about how women are better off in the kitchen like we were in olden days, you better well stick to tradition and open your mouth and say something to us. Because I'm not about to open my mouth and say something to you and get rejected. I'm not that type of girl. 

Maybe this blog made no sense. Maybe you agree or disagree with it. But there are always two sides to the story and coming from my end when a guy says the good guys come in last well maybe that because their not going for the good girls. Because guess what guys, the good girls come in last too.