Bad Days. I don't know what it's like for most people but I tend to have a multiple amounts of bad days. Maybe I have an unheard of disease known as baddayiouses or maybe it's just when I wake up and something turns out bad I am determined that the rest of the day will likely turn out the same way. Low and behold, I'm usually right. But truthfully I know it's my own fault. Since I have already predetermined that the rest of my day will turn out completely wrong I am more then likely to do things that make it seem that way or I will view things with more of a negative twist then it truly is. What I'm trying to say is that although I am a full believer in everything happens for a reason some little things like having some trouble with a printer or internet can be turned into something completely negative if we are expecting it to happen. For example: Say you wake up one morning and stub your toe ultimately, not only are you in aggravating pain, but your cursing and swearing and more then likely getting pretty mad. After the pain has gone away you'll probably end up saying "Just my luck, another bad day." Now stop right there, how can you tell if your having a bad day if you haven't lived it yet. 9 chances out of 10 your not psychic. So truly you have no idea if the rest of the day will be bad or not. But what you have done is set up for a bad day. As you get ready your going to be grumpy and focusing on the fact that your day will more then likely turn out bad. So instead of focusing on the task at hand you begin to get clumsy and aren't doing anything right, which on a normal case is a sure sign that so far your day is going terribly. Finally your all dressed and you leave the house and about to walk/drive to school/work when just when you get out the door you find out it's pouring. Your would probably say at this point "Just my luck!" figuring that just because your having a bad day it has to rain. But really if you had watch the 6 o'clock news the night before you would have known about the chance of showers or if you looked out your window you would have been prepared. So finally your day is done and you back at home all ready to relax. But, before you can do that you have dishes to do so you start the dishes and since your still focuses on that fact that your day has been bad you will fumble with a few or even drop a dish or two. Once thats over with, you head to bed to watch TV. This is the only time of day you can really say that you've had a bad day. Let me repeat that THIS IS THE ONLY TIME, not in the morning or mid after noon. What you can say in the morning if you stub your toe is "Oh great what a lovely start to a morning. I hope the rest of the day doesn't turn out this way." Then you go off on your merry way thinking nothing of it. You may tell a friend or two but you realize it's nothing major. If you continue to have a "bad day" then around midday you can say "Well that's just great, so far my day has been horrible."But again you're just addressing it your not really thinking anything of it. So, basically what I've been trying to say within all this mumbo-jumbo is... If your NOT psychic then 9 chances out of 10 you are predetermining a bad day when truly if it wasn't for the thought in your mind the entire day that it's going to go horribly it probably would be so bad or you probably wouldn't be able to view it as bad. Just try and keep that little thought in your head next time your "having a bad day". I know I will be.
I Am J Stans
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