Change: Good or Bad?

Change. It's something we all go through. Sometimes we have small changes and then sometimes, like what I'm going through right now, change comes in by the bus load. Change can also be difficult to deal with whether it's for better or for worse. It's trying to figure out which one it is that's the tough part. Take me for instance...

Around the beginning of May I started talking to a guy and we got really close. We'll call him A.This change was good. Shortly after I broke off ties with a friend who I had been fighting a lot with. Also a good change. A few weeks later my new friend introduced me to his friends and I made 3 new friends.We'll call them B, C, and D. Again a good change. Now, here's the kicker. Around the beginning of June my roommate/best friend/sister from another mister moved out and severs all contact with me. It is now July and I'm still dealing with the grief. I have gone through anger, questioning, depression, and now I'm a mixture of feelings. I also can't decide whether this is a good change or not. Yes I maybe losing a best friend but ever since she moved out and I asked B to move in with me. Now B is a boy and since I asked him to move in we became extremely close. I have grown strong feelings for him and it seems that he has strong feelings for me. 

So let's review shall we. We have 3 good changes happening one after the other and then one change that could go either way but whatever way it does go it has caused another good change. So as you can see change can cause massive amount of "WTF". Just ask A and B they've been their for me every time I've cried and got angry or just wanted to vent about what happen. 

So next time something big or small changes in you life remember, everything happens for a reason. That change could hurt for a while but it has to get worse before it's going to get better. I've been through the worse already I'll soon be dealing with the better.

Jennifer